“If you’ve been taking care of other people & saying yes all your
life, you may encounter some angry resistance when you start to say no. People
may say you were nicer before. They may say you’re being selfish, that they
prefer the “old” you. On the other hand, you might find that your honesty &
clarity is respected by friends who are glad that you are finally taking care
of yourself.” ~Ellen Bass & Laura Davis, The Courage to Heal
About Me
- Trista
- This blog is for anyone who has been affected by alcoholism or addiction. It is my attempt at breaking the cycle of addiction and unnecessary abuse before it hits my own children. I take a woman-centered approach to healing my life. "Most important is that we not identify ourselves with such labels as codependent or addict, or get stuck in chronic recovery as if we were constantly in need of fixing. The goal is to heal and move on, embrace life's ups and downs, and move from recovery to discovery. Then we can break through the limitation imposed by hierarchy, work together for a just society, and free our capacity for courage, joy, power, and love." - Charlotte Davis Kasl
The Girl-God, illustrated by Elisabeth Slettnes
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Artist: Lisa Ferrante
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