tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616243496806883218.post2258864783832009249..comments2023-10-14T00:43:30.752-07:00Comments on Hearts Aren't Made of Glass: A Journey Towards Recovery: The LushTristahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06308388473864912872noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616243496806883218.post-28013613266696630292009-12-02T20:50:27.887-08:002009-12-02T20:50:27.887-08:00So true Syd!!!So true Syd!!!Tristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06308388473864912872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616243496806883218.post-68383480053015686922009-12-02T19:40:04.305-08:002009-12-02T19:40:04.305-08:00I've learned that alcoholics are never at faul...I've learned that alcoholics are never at fault and won't take responsibility for their actions. It is always the other person's fault. Hang in there. You don't have to believe what he says. A quasi joke that I've heard is: How can you tell and alcoholic is lying? Watch his lips move.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616243496806883218.post-25900410729203746202009-12-01T09:22:56.015-08:002009-12-01T09:22:56.015-08:00Thank you for sharing. One thing that I seem to s...Thank you for sharing. One thing that I seem to see everywhere (Alanon meetings, blogs, etc) is that alcoholics have a very hard time taking ownership of anything. It's funny (and sad) how similar our stories are. God bless you in your journey.Tristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06308388473864912872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7616243496806883218.post-79196332767568321132009-12-01T06:58:39.456-08:002009-12-01T06:58:39.456-08:00I was married to an alcoholic, drug addicted, abus...I was married to an alcoholic, drug addicted, abusive man who cheated. He continually accused me of being unfaithful (I never was). I learned that someone who is so defensive almost always has something to hide. He threatened to kill himself if I ever left him. I left him and he's still alive 23 years later. Mind-fuckers want you to be in their space and will say and do almost anything to get you there. I did not have children with this man so have no way of truly appreciating your struggles, but do know that you must protect yourself and your children. Be strong.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com